Agree on what actually matters

Most heartbreak comes from things left unspoken — roles, finances, family, faith, children. So we ask you to set your position on each, and how strongly you hold it (flexible → deal-breaker). Answer once; it carries forward to every match. When you connect with someone, you'll see a calm red / yellow / green map of where you align and where you'd need to talk — not a reductive percentage. A single deal-breaker matters more than fifty small agreements, and the map shows you exactly that.